Anonymous said: I think they might mean tested, like for an STD since he was with a hooker. So sorry you are going through this by the way.

I said:

Ohhhh. He’s in Japan so I haven’t even seen him since November. So no I didn’t get tested since he just did this a few weeks ago.

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Anonymous said: I hope you got test? What does that mean

I said:

I’m assuming mad. haha.

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Anonymous said: I hope you got test after he told you he cheated on you!

I said:

haha oh don’t you worry, I definitely did!

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Anonymous said: Does he actually care for this person? or just a one time thing? He's going to regret this. I'm sorry you're going through this.

I said:

It was definitely a one time thing. He cheated on me with a hooker in the Philippine Islands and I sure as hell hope he regrets this! But anyways, thanks for the support darling:)

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Anonymous said: Who did he cheat with? And why? :(

I said:

He cheated with a hooker in the Philippine Islands when he was underway. He told me the reason was because we were fighting and I didn’t want to talk to him for a day or two. This isn’t the first time either him or I have done that while fighting. Usually we need some time to cool off so I don’t understand why he actually did it….I will probably never know either.

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Anonymous said: As much as it must hurt. I'm proud that you decided to move on ( sorry couldn't find a better word) so many people go back with those who cheated on them. But you have a good view on it. Stay strong everything will get better and hurt less with time

I said:

Thanks so much for the support anon:) I know, it’s really hard to go from having someone there to not having him anymore but I have an amazing support system so I know I can make it through anything if I have them there for me. Thanks again darling:)

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Anonymous said: Are yall gonna get back together or is it really over?

I said:

It’s really over. As much as I love him I could never trust him the way I did before and trust is the most important aspect of our relationship especially when he’s stationed on the opposite side of the world. Plus, you don’t do that to the person you love.

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Anonymous said: When your boyfriend cheated on you, was he sorry? I mean, did he want to stay together?? I'm so sorry to hear about what happened and hopefully my question doesn't sound harsh :( Stay strong

I said:

Was he sorry? Well he never apologized for it but yes he did want to stay together and “forget the mistake.” Thanks for the support!

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The amount of support you guys have given me is beyond belief. Thank you so much for being there for me and sending me personal messages filled with love. I am so thankful for all of you!! :)


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Anonymous said: I am so sorry! (: It will get easier with time. Of course you probably know this, but sometimes reassuring is helpful. God bless

I said:

Thank you so much. Honestly, it feels good to hear it as well though. Thank you again anon :)

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Anonymous said: May I ask your how did you find out your boyfriend cheated on you?

I said:

He came out and told me. He has a very hard time keeping things from me. I asked him how his week went and he said, “Miranda we really need to talk about something” and then told me.

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Anonymous said: what's a milso?

I said:

Military (mil) significant other (so)

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I’ve seen so many other posts like this from other milsos and I never thought it would be me…EVER. But as it turns out, Dan cheated on me and it looks like I am no longer a milso but an ex-milso. Idk how long I can keep this blog because it makes me pretty sad to look at already. I’ll try to finish up sending out all the advice in my ask box but idk how much longer I’ll keep my blog. Thank you all for supporting me through the past two years! I love every single one of you!! <3 <3 <3


alwaysfallingforhim:

I love you.