Okay guys, I know that I don’t really check this blog much anymore but I just wanted to say a few things:
1) The support you have all given me over the past months has been absolutely incredible. You are the best people I could ask for and believe it or not, you guys have truly helped me.
2) My dad is coming home from his third tour in Afghanistan for R&R in two weeks! TWO WEEKS!!! I can NOT wait!!
3) PLEASE follow my new blog! I don’t mean to be advertising myself, but I really do want to follow everyone of you who have followed this blog but there are just too many of you to go through and do that. My new blog is wildcurls-satinpearls
Thanks for your compassion!:) and I’m soooo sad we didn’t find each other sooner!! I’m sure we would have had a lot to talk about! haha.
I honestly can’t tell you. But joining the military is a HUGE commitment and some guys change. Some can’t handle the distance or maybe they think that you won’t be able to handle the distance. I’m so sorry that this happened and I hope that you can work things out with him! Maybe it was a momentary lapse in judgment and he just freaked out. I know that everyone has those moments sometimes so I hope that’s all that it was. Good luck sweetie!
Yes he is. He’s on the USS Blueridge.
Hey anon! Yes lol my ex is stationed on the Blueridge so you probably know him. And don’t worry about it. Everything happens for a reason.
Ohhhh. He’s in Japan so I haven’t even seen him since November. So no I didn’t get tested since he just did this a few weeks ago.
I’m assuming mad. haha.
haha oh don’t you worry, I definitely did!
It was definitely a one time thing. He cheated on me with a hooker in the Philippine Islands and I sure as hell hope he regrets this! But anyways, thanks for the support darling:)
He cheated with a hooker in the Philippine Islands when he was underway. He told me the reason was because we were fighting and I didn’t want to talk to him for a day or two. This isn’t the first time either him or I have done that while fighting. Usually we need some time to cool off so I don’t understand why he actually did it….I will probably never know either.
Thanks so much for the support anon:) I know, it’s really hard to go from having someone there to not having him anymore but I have an amazing support system so I know I can make it through anything if I have them there for me. Thanks again darling:)
It’s really over. As much as I love him I could never trust him the way I did before and trust is the most important aspect of our relationship especially when he’s stationed on the opposite side of the world. Plus, you don’t do that to the person you love.