Okay guys, I know that I don’t really check this blog much anymore but I just wanted to say a few things:

1) The support you have all given me over the past months has been absolutely incredible. You are the best people I could ask for and believe it or not, you guys have truly helped me.

2) My dad is coming home from his third tour in Afghanistan for R&R in two weeks! TWO WEEKS!!! I can NOT wait!!

3) PLEASE follow my new blog! I don’t mean to be advertising myself, but I really do want to follow everyone of you who have followed this blog but there are just too many of you to go through and do that. My new blog is wildcurls-satinpearls


Anonymous said: I don't know if you check this anymore, but I literally just found this tumblr today. As a navy milso (and fellow sorority girl, DG), I am so sorry that yours chose to make a horrible decision.

I said:

Thanks for your compassion!:) and I’m soooo sad we didn’t find each other sooner!! I’m sure we would have had a lot to talk about! haha.

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Anonymous said: My soon to be sailor broke up with me about a month before leaving for bootcamp which is today :( I'm so broken and confused. We talked about our future together. Marriage, kids, everything. He had so much love for me. As I did him. He always told me that he was doing this for us and our soon to be family. He had so much faith in us and all of a sudden I get pushed away and broken up with through text? What's really going on? I can't take this for an answer. I love him dearly.

I said:

I honestly can’t tell you. But joining the military is a HUGE commitment and some guys change. Some can’t handle the distance or maybe they think that you won’t be able to handle the distance. I’m so sorry that this happened and I hope that you can work things out with him! Maybe it was a momentary lapse in judgment and he just freaked out. I know that everyone has those moments sometimes so I hope that’s all that it was. Good luck sweetie!

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Anonymous said: Is your (ex)boyfriend on a ship? I swear he looks familiar.

I said:

Yes he is. He’s on the USS Blueridge.

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Anonymous said: I was the one who messaged you last time asking if your ex is on a ship, possibly in USS Blue Ridge? Just wondering because if he is, I might've met him once. He looks so familiar. My husband is on that ship as well and I get to meet a lot of people from the ship. I am sorry to hear about what happened to you. No one deserves to be cheated on like that.

I said:

Hey anon! Yes lol my ex is stationed on the Blueridge so you probably know him. And don’t worry about it. Everything happens for a reason.

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Anonymous said: I think they might mean tested, like for an STD since he was with a hooker. So sorry you are going through this by the way.

I said:

Ohhhh. He’s in Japan so I haven’t even seen him since November. So no I didn’t get tested since he just did this a few weeks ago.

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Anonymous said: I hope you got test? What does that mean

I said:

I’m assuming mad. haha.

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Anonymous said: I hope you got test after he told you he cheated on you!

I said:

haha oh don’t you worry, I definitely did!

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Anonymous said: Does he actually care for this person? or just a one time thing? He's going to regret this. I'm sorry you're going through this.

I said:

It was definitely a one time thing. He cheated on me with a hooker in the Philippine Islands and I sure as hell hope he regrets this! But anyways, thanks for the support darling:)

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Anonymous said: Who did he cheat with? And why? :(

I said:

He cheated with a hooker in the Philippine Islands when he was underway. He told me the reason was because we were fighting and I didn’t want to talk to him for a day or two. This isn’t the first time either him or I have done that while fighting. Usually we need some time to cool off so I don’t understand why he actually did it….I will probably never know either.

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Anonymous said: As much as it must hurt. I'm proud that you decided to move on ( sorry couldn't find a better word) so many people go back with those who cheated on them. But you have a good view on it. Stay strong everything will get better and hurt less with time

I said:

Thanks so much for the support anon:) I know, it’s really hard to go from having someone there to not having him anymore but I have an amazing support system so I know I can make it through anything if I have them there for me. Thanks again darling:)

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Anonymous said: Are yall gonna get back together or is it really over?

I said:

It’s really over. As much as I love him I could never trust him the way I did before and trust is the most important aspect of our relationship especially when he’s stationed on the opposite side of the world. Plus, you don’t do that to the person you love.

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